Light up Your Love Life:

The Dream Partner Blueprint for Anxious or Insecure Daters

If you've been looking for the love of your life,

but you keep ending up in relationships or dating situations that exhaust you,

make you feel anxious or insecure, and barely meet your needs,

this group program is for you.

You're hopeful about finding your dream partner, but you're tired of the dating roller coaster and feel uncertain about how to find your person.

The people you're excited about seem great at first (the chemistry! talking about the future! complimenting and charming you endlessly!), but in the end they just don't commit, they stop putting in effort, or they make you feel like you have to convince them to love you.

You can't figure out what you're doing wrong.

You give your all in your romantic relationships, hoping it will get them to choose you. Hoping it will show them how great it would be to have you by their side.

But for all the effort you put in, you barely get anything in return.

You wonder why it's so hard to find the kind of partner you've dreamed of—a partner who wants to commit and build a life with you.

Someone who will show up for you, even when times are hard.

Someone who gets you and will go the extra mile in your partnership.

Someone who doesn't leave you uncertain about where you stand, analyzing every interaction and conversation, trying to figure out if you're a couple or not, if they care about you or not.

The Details

8 weeks to transform how you date

October 9 - November 27, 2024

Wednesdays, 7 - 8:30pm EST

on Zoom

$550 for 8 90-minute sessions

use code LUYLL100 for $100 off

until Sept. 30, 2024

Weekly Themes:

Dating mistakes & how to fix them

Healing & changing your dating patterns so you can choose better partners

Attuning to your dream relationship vision

How to find your dream partner

Intentional Dating Blueprint

Dating confidence

Self-care for your dating process

Integration

Recordings available if you can't attend all sessions.

GET $100 off til Sept 30Use code LUYLL100

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I get how frustrating and confusing it is—because I've been there too.

It's so easy to get excited about someone who seems promising at the beginning,

but if you often find yourself in dynamics that are draining and leave you anxious or uncertain, it's time to transform how you date.

The usual things you look for—instant attraction and chemistry, people who talk about a future with you in the first few dates and immediately lay on the charm—aren't the things that actually lead to amazing, long-term dream relationships.

These can get you hooked on someone who is more style than substance. They might look good on paper, they might seem like your "type," but they haven't shown you that they have what it takes to be a great partner. But you're already attached (and probably exhausted) by the time you figure this out.

If you want to find your person,

it's time to change the way you date.

If you're ready for a relationship with someone who lights you up and meets you in your energy and effort,

it's time to learn what to actually look for in a potential dream partner

—and how to find one.

So you can stop falling for superficially attractive people who won't commit or put in the effort, and have the space and energy to find someone who will.

I'M READY, SIGN ME UP!

What we'll be working on

8 sessions focused on re-calibrating how you date and what you look for in a partner—so you stop wasting time on people who won't commit or won't put in the kind of energy and effort you do.

8 sessions focused on re-calibrating how you date and what you look for in a partner—

so you stop wasting time on people who won't commit or won't put in the kind of energy and effort you do.

what we're covering:

✨How your attachment system and relational history influence you to choose and get hooked on people who aren't actually dream partners—and what to do about it.

✨How to stop making the same dating mistakes over and over again.

✨Why healthy boundaries are so important when you start dating someone—and how to implement them.

✨Tune into what you actually want in a relationship, and what your non-negotiables are. Then learn how to date intentionally so you can find someone who matches what you want, and avoid deadbeat dates more easily.

✨How to feel more confident being yourself when dating and putting yourself out there. Your dream person wants to know the whole you!

✨Self-care while dating, and when to take a break.

how we'll do it:

✨Easy-to-digest lessons based on what I've learned from my own experiences, research, and training as an attachment-focused psychotherapist and embodied intimacy and relationship coach

✨Powerful exercises that help you tune into yourself and what you really want

✨Discussions about the lessons, exercises, and your experiences (sharing in the group is optional—you'll still get so much out of it)

✨Exploration and processing of your feelings and beliefs around dating, self-worth, and confidence

✨Connecting and building community support within the group (you're not alone when it comes to your dating challenges)

I'M READY TO TRANSFORM HOW I DATE!

✨ The details ✨

8 weeks to transform how you date

October 9 - November 27, 2024

Wednesdays, 7 - 8:30pm EST

on Zoom

$550 before September 30, 11:59pm EST

Weekly Themes:

Dating mistakes & how to fix them

Healing & changing your dating patterns so you can choose better partners

Attuning to your dream relationship vision

How to find your dream partner

Intentional Dating Blueprint

Dating confidence

Self-care for your dating process

Integration

Recordings available if you can't attend all sessions.

SIGN ME UP!

You can keep spinning your wheels, wasting time with people who aren’t ready to commit to you. Or you can finally change the patterns that keep you choosing people who are unavailable.

Because let’s face it—instant chemistry gets you hooked but burns out quickly.

Someone with a great sense of humour is fun to be with—but can they go deep with you without getting scared of intimacy?

Sure, you love how tall they are, but can they have open and honest conversations about what’s important to them in a relationship? Do they respect you and your boundaries?

If you’re ready change your dating patterns so you can actually get what you want in your love life—I would love to help.

I’m a therapist who has been where you are—trying so hard to get someone to give me all I give them.

Trying to get them to fit into the kind of relationship I want, instead of recognizing that it shouldn’t be so hard to build a dream partnership if it’s meant to be.

I finally realized that walking away and learning how to spot people who are ready for what I want makes things so much easier and way less painful than getting attached quickly just because they checked a few of my boxes.

If you want to find out more before signing up, book a no-obligation consult with me.