Sex can be an incredibly beautiful and enriching part of life, but it can also be stressful and anxiety-inducing depending on how we approach it. I'm all about expanding and relaxing our views of sex—what it entails, what it's "supposed" to be like, and how our bodies are supposed to look and behave during sex. Let's face it: sex is imperfect and messy, and it can bring a lot of fun and enjoyment. Kind of like life itself.

You don't have to look a certain way or be able to do all the things with the parts that you're working with. You can make sex about yourself and the person/people you experience it with, your connection, and your humanity—quirks and all.

I believe that the best sex happens within a space of safety, trust, respect, and emotional and/or conscious presence. It happens when each person is connected to their own desires and boundaries, and can share these openly and safely.

The main goal for sex (in my opinion) is connection and enjoyment. It’s not about performing to a certain standard; it’s about being in the moment and exploring an experience with another person (or people). I love how Esther Perel puts it—sex isn’t a thing you do, it’s “a place you go.”

I work with partners from all walks of life, with all genders and gender experiences, and sexual orientations.

I understand the different patterns of desire and arousal that can make sex feel tricky for a lot of people, especially when there are mismatches between partners.

I’m kink-positive and poly-affirming, and I hold an attachment orientation in my work.